🍎 The Ultimate Game-changer in Your Relationships

When you read the following scenarios,
who comes to your mind? 

1. When the people who believe in you
give up on you 

2. When the people you love 
seem to stop loving you

Dear One, I know it stings. 
Some of you may not
even dare to continue reading this.
Because it can be painful.

In life, we will face these fears
when we go through seasons in life
such as 

• a break-up 
• unreciprocated love 
• business failure 
• unsuccessful job applications 
• betrayal 
• rejection 
• disappointment
• or even being misunderstood due to unfair accusations

And especially in these times of fear, 
of losing the people in our lives, 
*you* are actually the most important person
who requires your attention.

<Wisdom Note>

When you feel despaired 
by the people who don’t cherish you, 
your healing is not in pleasing them
in order to win them over.

Your healing is in 
your renewed resolution 
to cherish yourself
more than ever. 

I had this love letter I wrote to myself when 
I was feeling hopeless in my career and relationships in 2015. 
May you be blessed by this: 

(October 2015, Ho Chi Minh City:
Revelations after a business failure and turning point
in my relationships of breaking the vicious cycle
of attracting emotionally unavailable men.)

” Dear Val,
Anyone could give up on you.
But you must never
give up on yourself.

Anyone could stop loving you.
But you must never
stop loving yourself.

Because you could lose everything,
you could lose everyone.

But you could never lose you –
if everyday,
you make choices that
love and take care of you.

You could never lose you, 
if you would let yourself 
live the life you love.

Your life, your choice.

Choose life.
Choose love.

For your best self.
Your best life!”

Dear One, more than anyone else,
cherish yourself. 
This is the ultimate game-changer in relationships.

In grace and lightness,
Val