Have you ever felt like you have fallen short of a certain ‘ideal’ you ‘should’ be?

And because of that, you find yourself struggling in your relationships not just with others, but also yourself. 

Today, be encouraged and inspired by my client, Xin Ying – a Singaporean living in Chicago. 

6 months ago, when Xin Ying applied to work with me in the Breakthrough Woman Program, she rated her happiness 6 out of 10. 

Today, A LOT has changed. 

Hear all about it in today’s podcast! 

TIME STAMPS:

4:20 Passion for food, cooking

7:37 Tissues and an emotional Breakthrough Call experience

9:53 Living abroad: from ‘reset’ to feeling lost and seasonal depression

13:20 Realising she ‘struggled with the same things’ while being in a relationship

14:20 ‘I made the decision I don’t want to live like that anymore’

16:29 ‘How I deal with emotions is by running away from them’

18:35 Finding freedom and going beyond being a ‘personality type’

22:14 What really helped Xin Ying in the Breakthrough Woman Program

23:50 What were the first few relationships she had to find closure in?

24:20 Falling short of the ‘ideal’ of what a ‘good person’ is

27:07 Head Knowledge v.s. Heart Knowledge

27:48 Do these myths of ‘breakthroughs’ keep you stuck?

29:44 What does it mean to love yourself?

31:00 Everything stems from this ONE relationships

33:00 Self-Empathy: How comfortable are you sharing how you truly feel?

35:35 Feeling inadequate at work because of ________

37:05 Growing up with everything but……

39:45 The reality and value of ‘breakthroughs’

42:54 Self-Patience and offering patience to others

42:11 Xin Ying’s advice to you (please listen….it’s TOO GOOD to miss!)